Haven't blogged for a while. Opened the blog area, seeing something not written by me gave a minor heart attack.
Seriously! I am not kidding!
But afterall, what a pleasant surprise! Yeah! I am glad! Hah!
Well.... I was wanting to mumble some of my recent encounters with girls. So here we go:
But-Sou came back for summer job. He's now working as a magazine photographer. He has a friend who is living in Cheung Chau called TC. TC introduced me to his friend SS when we went out for Karaoke one night. SS was charming. She reminds me of the girl studied in UBC who initially dated the Fairchild TV Eric. SS is the mature version of her. SS works in Andersen. I dated her to one lunch and one dinner. That's it. No more dating with SS. I have to remember that... though it's tempting to date her again since she's kinda... "I wanna date her" type... well... what I am talking about ..... . . . . ..... .... In short, doesn't work out at all.

Disastrous!

VY... another girl. She went to the same senior high school with me. But-Sou is more acquaintant with her than me since I didn't hang out much at that time. YV is now working in ING. I had never found her to be attractive until recently. I've tried to get close to her. One point I found out about myself during the "getting close" process is that I have less interest and pay less effort in pursuing female subject if she's less sexually appealing!!! And VY is exactly the case! She's perfect in many ways that I would rate her highly. Nonetheless, I didn't have the enough eagerness to pursue her like I did for carol. The reason is simple after some evaluation (day dreaming during office hour):

"Her breasts are not big enough!"

I don't fantasize making love to her at all. This is the, as Ken Young called it, GATING FACTOR!!!!

"Disgusting ME!"

Almost forgot, I met GT, a tall girl who had modeled for carol and I at the Parker Place fashion show. GT bumped into me on the street. She called out my name first! She's the kind of girl who looks mature but young at heart. I had one dinner date with her. She hinted that she's opened to my pursuit if I was interested... only if I didn't mind the fact that she already had a 6-year stable boyfriend and a 3-months affair with another married man......

This is how Hong Kong's girl behave... soooooo "modern"!

Cousin Lay Lay came to Hong Kong to visit grandmother with her fiance. Her fiance is an eye surgeon.
Damn... she married a physician doctor...
(well... this is definitely just kidding.... I would hate myself if I take that male-physician-doctors-are-all-bad-guys thing to cousin Lay Lay's husband...)
Mr. Right is a such a fine gentleman. Yes, I can tell. Cousin Lay Lay's happiness flooded inside-out!!!
I was coming to recognize myself as a gentleman outside but non-gentleman inside type... (just to be a little gentle to myself... Hah...)
I was afraid that I cannot change this.
And I have to accept myself as a non-gentleman despite the fact that many women have been telling me that girls like to be gently treated.

Phoebe came back from vancouver to take summer break. She's leaving on Monday. Aaron, TO, Tin Yee, and Joseph came out for gathering twice. The first time at Joseph's home, and yesterday at the Admiralty J.W. Marriott. We had, like always, profound discussion of all the topics in the world we could think of. These group of friends are quite unique. We are close in terms of relationship but remotely separated either by location or career practice. I talked about this ericarol.com website I've been working on to Aaron and Phoebe. However, I didn't told them the url. This ericarol.com is kind of a special place for me to mumble something...